Do you believe you deserve great abundance? Do you believe you can have it in your life?
Most of us would like to believe that, but at the same time we have a niggling little voice in the back of our minds that jeers at us: “Ha! Who do you think you’re kidding? You know you don’t deserve to be wealthy and happy. You’re not one of the lucky ones and you know it. Just give it up. You are doomed to live a mediocre life. Accept it.”
This little voice is usually the result of early programming and negative reinforcement we experience during times of difficulty. It’s bad enough that this negative voice takes up residence in our minds in the first place, but much worse is that we begin to believe what it says! We end up sabotaging any efforts we make to live a more abundant life.
If this sounds all too familiar to you, it’s possible you are blocking abundance from entering your life. Dissolving these inner blockages may take some effort on your part, but it is time well-spent!
Before we go into the steps for doing that, keep in mind three things about this negative voice:
• It is replaying things that people in your life have communicated to you in the past.
• It is replaying things you have said to yourself in the past.
• You do not have to believe these things if you don’t want to!
Here’s how to turn that negative voice into a positive, supporting voice:
Begin speaking kindly and lovingly to yourself.
Remember, that little voice in your head will keep repeating what you consistently tell it. In the past you may have been harsh on yourself when you failed at something or didn’t follow through with goals you set. Recording over that negative voice with more positive messages is very simple – just keep speaking kindly and lovingly to yourself as often as possible! In time, the tone of that mental voice will begin to change.
Celebrate your achievements.
If you believe that nothing you do is ever good enough, begin making it a priority to celebrate everything you do. Even the tiniest accomplishment should be cause for celebration. Pat yourself on the back, congratulate yourself, and most importantly feel GOOD about who you are and what you do. Keep striving to do better, but also give yourself some recognition for even trying!
Believe that abundance is your birthright.
Keep affirming that you do deserve an abundant, happy life. Expect abundance and goodness in all forms. Say things like this, “I just know I’m meant to live a powerful life. I believe I have the strength and ability to make my life into anything I want it to be.” If you know you deserve abundance, expect abundance always, and allow yourself to open to abundance – you get abundance!
Remember that it will probably take time to notice obvious results. Keep doing the steps as often as you can, and before long you should find yourself feeling lighter and happier, AND attracting ever-increasing amounts of abundance into your life.
“Allowing,” in relation to the Law of Attraction is a difficult thing to describe because it’s a state of being, rather than a state of doing. It’s a process of letting go any effort to control what happens around you and instead letting the universe work on your behalf.
Staying in a state of allowance can be challenging for some people because they are so used to taking action in order to get what they want. Allowing your heart’s desires may seem contrary to this approach, but it’s really just a matter of taking different actions and choosing the right mind-set.
Below you will find some simple steps to help you move easily into a state of allowing.
Sit in silence.
Meditation is the quickest and easiest way to get into a state of allowance because it places you immediately into the process of observing and being, rather than doing. As you focus on letting go of fear and frustration, you invite a flood of inner peace and acceptance to replace them. This mind-set dissolves blockages and removes resistance, which leaves only . . . allowance!
Do what you love as often as possible.
Allowing is not just about getting something you want, but rather learning to open to the natural flow of joy, passion and abundance that is available to you at all times. When you do what you love, you automatically attract a flood of positive energy into your life. Yes, this can definitely help you attract something you want, but it also sets you up to receive a lot more than you asked for. Rather than just receiving one thing you wanted, you find yourself in a constant state of surprise and joy as more and more wonderful things come your way.
Think positively.
This should be a no-brainer, because most of us are fully aware of the benefits of positive thinking. However, don’t limit your positive thinking in relation to your immediate goal only! Learn to develop a true positive thinking habit, and spread it evenly through your entire life. Think positively, speak positively and act positively as often as possible. You’ll feel happier, increase the frequency of your energy and stay in a consistent state of allowance.
Have unwavering faith.
Many of us tend to flip-flop between immense faith and overwhelming doubt. Our faith is strong when everything is going fine but as soon as we run into problems, doubt knocks us off-center. The true test of faith is being able to hold it while in the midst of difficulty! It may not be easy, but remember that having faith is a choice. You can choose to believe and know that everything will be fine, or you can choose to believe it won’t. When challenges come knocking on your door, choose your mind-set wisely.
Detach completely.
Most of us tend to revert back to childish antics when we want something. We figure if we can just nag the universe to death, it will give in and give us what we want. So we keep meditating and praying and visualizing. We spend hours mentally begging for what we want, and obsess about it constantly. This is not allowing - it is clinging and grasping! The universe heard your request the first time, so there is no need to keep asking. Instead, remember that time may be needed before it will show up, or it’s also possible that you won’t get what you asked for – but you might get something much better!
Be open to whatever comes your way, knowing with all of your heart that it will be absolutely perfect in every way.
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